14 \u015eubat (Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc civar\u0131)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir \u00f6nceki ak\u015fam, ne kadar yaln\u0131z oldu\u011fum konusunda Tanr\u0131'ya yalvard\u0131m. O gece daha sonra bir r\u00fcya g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Havaalan\u0131nda geni\u015f dudakl\u0131, k\u0131sa boylu sar\u0131\u015f\u0131n bir kad\u0131nla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. El bagaj\u0131 kontrol\u00fc yap\u0131lan g\u00fcvenlik noktas\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k. Bu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma o kadar anlaml\u0131yd\u0131 ki, Tanr\u0131'ya bunun ger\u00e7ek bir \u015fey mi yoksa sadece bir ders mi oldu\u011funu sordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
May\u0131s 2025'in ba\u015flar\u0131nda Ermenistan'da bir kilise bekarlar konferans\u0131na gittim ve bana benzeyen Rus bir k\u0131zla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. \u0130leti\u015fimi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fck. 8 May\u0131s civar\u0131nda, Moskova havaalan\u0131nda aksakl\u0131klar ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, o ve di\u011fer Hristiyanlar eve d\u00f6nmekte zorluk \u00e7ektiler. \u0130\u015fte o zaman ona r\u00fcyam\u0131 anlatt\u0131m. Konu\u015fmaya devam ettik ve k\u00f6pekler konusunda ortak bir ilgi alan\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu ke\u015ffettik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ancak konu\u015fma \u0130ncil'e veya Kutsal Yaz\u0131lara her d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, kendini kapat\u0131yordu. Dinlemeyi reddediyordu. \u0130nat\u00e7\u0131yd\u0131. S\u00fcrekli tekrarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bahane, "\u00e7ok fazla \u00f6\u011fretmen" ve yeterince aile sevgisi olmamas\u0131yd\u0131. Kutsal Yaz\u0131lardan al\u0131nt\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u011flam\u0131ndan kopar\u0131yordu. \u015eark\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeyi seviyordu, ancak Tanr\u0131 S\u00f6z\u00fc'n\u00fc sevmiyor gibiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu durum bana kendilerini Mesih'in gelini olarak tan\u0131tan bir\u00e7ok kiliseyi \u015fiddetle hat\u0131rlatt\u0131. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan dindar g\u00f6r\u00fcnseler de, egoist bir tav\u0131r tak\u0131n\u0131yorlar, zaten yeterince \u015fey bildiklerine inan\u0131yorlar ve Kutsal Yaz\u0131lar taraf\u0131ndan d\u00fczeltilmeye veya \u00f6\u011fretilmeye yana\u015fm\u0131yorlar. Yaz\u0131l\u0131 olana boyun e\u011fmek yerine kendi s\u00f6zlerini ve bahanelerini tercih ediyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130sa bu \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcye olduk\u00e7a uyan bir hikaye anlatt\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cO zaman g\u00f6klerin krall\u0131\u011f\u0131, lambalar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131p damad\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamaya giden on bakireye benzer. Bunlardan be\u015fi ak\u0131ls\u0131z, be\u015fi ise ak\u0131ll\u0131yd\u0131. Ak\u0131ls\u0131zlar lambalar\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131klar\u0131nda yanlar\u0131na ya\u011f almad\u0131lar, ak\u0131ll\u0131lar ise lambalar\u0131yla birlikte ya\u011f kaplar\u0131 ald\u0131lar\u2026 Onlar ya\u011f almaya giderken damat geldi; haz\u0131r olanlar onunla birlikte d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ziyafetine girdiler ve kap\u0131 kapat\u0131ld\u0131.\u201d (Matta 25:1-10)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Bu sadece g\u00fcnl\u00fck haz\u0131rl\u0131kla ilgili ahlaki bir ders de\u011fil. Bu, Gelin olan Mesih'in d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn bir tasviridir. Ayn\u0131 imgeler Vahiy'de de yer almaktad\u0131r: Kuzu'nun d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yeme\u011fi (Vahiy 19:7-9), haz\u0131r olma \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 ve kap\u0131n\u0131n bir g\u00fcn kapanaca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi. Hem ak\u0131ll\u0131 hem de ak\u0131ls\u0131z bakireler uygun g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. \u0130kisinin de lambalar\u0131 vard\u0131. \u0130kisi de bekliyordu. Aradaki fark, Gelin gelene kadar yetecek ya\u011flar\u0131n\u0131n olup olmamas\u0131yd\u0131. Kutsal Yaz\u0131lara ve itaate ger\u00e7ek bir sevgi olmadan \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleme ve Hristiyan faaliyetlerine duyulan sevgi, o g\u00fcn geldi\u011finde lambay\u0131 bo\u015f b\u0131rakabilir. Bu, Yarg\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tanr\u0131'n\u0131n Sevgisi Disiplini de \u0130\u00e7erir<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Kutsal Kitap, Tanr\u0131'dan gelen ger\u00e7ek sevginin bizi inat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k i\u00e7inde rahat b\u0131rakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a belirtir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cO\u011flum, Rabbin terbiyesini hafife alma, O'nun azarlamas\u0131ndan da b\u0131kma. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Rab sevdi\u011fini terbiye eder, kabul etti\u011fi her o\u011flunu cezaland\u0131r\u0131r.\u201d (\u0130braniler 12:5-6)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cSevdiklerimi azarlar ve terbiye ederim; \u00f6yleyse gayretli olun ve t\u00f6vbe edin.\u201d (Vahiy 3:19)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Birisi s\u00fcrekli olarak Tanr\u0131 S\u00f6z\u00fc'n\u00fc reddediyorsa, d\u00fczeltmelere kar\u015f\u0131 sessiz kal\u0131yorsa ve kendi a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131n\u0131 tercih ediyorsa, bu ruhsal olgunlu\u011fun bir i\u015fareti de\u011fildir. Bu genellikle kalbin, \u00e7ocuk olarak sevildi\u011fimizi kan\u0131tlayan disipline direndi\u011finin bir i\u015faretidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sapk\u0131nl\u0131k \u00c7a\u011f\u0131nda Ya\u015famak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, Mesih'in ad\u0131n\u0131 ananlar\u0131n bir\u00e7o\u011funun art\u0131k sa\u011flam \u00f6\u011fretilere tahamm\u00fcl edemedi\u011fi bir d\u00f6nemde ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Pavlus \u015f\u00f6yle yazd\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6yle bir zaman gelecek ki, insanlar sa\u011flam \u00f6\u011fretilere tahamm\u00fcl edemeyecekler; kulaklar\u0131 ka\u015f\u0131nanlar, kendi heveslerine uygun \u00f6\u011fretmenler edinecekler ve ger\u00e7e\u011fi dinlemekten y\u00fcz \u00e7evirip efsanelere sapacaklar.\u201d (2 Timoteos 4:3-4)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cRuh a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a diyor ki, son zamanlarda baz\u0131lar\u0131 imandan sapacaklard\u0131r\u2026\u201d (1 Timoteos 4:1)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
\n\u201cKimse sizi hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde aldatmas\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc isyan \u00f6nce gelmedik\u00e7e o g\u00fcn gelmeyecektir\u2026\u201d (2 Selanikliler 2:3)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Ki\u015fisel ba\u011flant\u0131da g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc \u2014Kutsal Kitaba diren\u00e7, ba\u011flam\u0131ndan kopar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f al\u0131nt\u0131lar, S\u00f6z yerine duygusal veya ili\u015fkisel bahaneleri tercih etme\u2014 kendilerini h\u00e2l\u00e2 Hristiyan olarak adland\u0131ran bir\u00e7ok kilisede de g\u00f6r\u00fclen ayn\u0131 \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcd\u00fcr. D\u0131\u015fsal bi\u00e7imleri (\u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleme, toplant\u0131lar, Hristiyan dili) korurken, Yeni Ahit'in otoritesini sessizce reddederler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
R\u00fcya ve sonras\u0131ndaki g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme bana ciddi bir soru b\u0131rakt\u0131: Bizler, lambalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 dolu tutan, S\u00f6z\u00fc almaya ve itaat etmeye haz\u0131r olanlardan m\u0131, yoksa g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte \u00f6yle olan ama \u00f6nemli anlarda ya\u011f\u0131 olmayanlardan m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Umar\u0131m h\u00e2l\u00e2 Tanr\u0131'ya yakarmay\u0131, O'nun ne g\u00f6stermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dikkatle izlemeyi ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131 kendi yollar\u0131n\u0131 tercih etse bile Kutsal Kitaba s\u0131k\u0131ca ba\u011fl\u0131 kalmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniyorumdur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu konu hakk\u0131nda daha detayl\u0131 bilgi edinmek i\u00e7in \u015funlardan faydalanabilirsiniz: https:\/\/findgod.help\/en\/Church.html<\/a>, https:\/\/findgod.help\/en\/Apostasy.html<\/a>, https:\/\/findgod.help\/en\/Apostasy2.html<\/a> Ve https:\/\/findgod.help\/en\/Judgment.html<\/a> Sad\u0131k olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek https:\/\/findgod.help\/en\/FaithObedienceGrace.html<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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